Sunday, August 21, 2011

Knight in Shining Armor

Knight Xander. It looks like he really is the "commander of all the land here!"

Cliff Jumping in St. George 2011

Crazy mom!

Lady Ella (Catherine DeBourg).

If any of you have seen Pride and Prejudice you'll recognize this great actress. Lady Ella (Catherine DeBourg).

Ella can be found at all times dressed to the hilt with hats and tutus and high heals! Dancing around the room.

Crazy Pickle!

This is it! The moment Niko has been waiting for.....  Jumping about 12 feet down into the water below. Niko was the first to conquer his fears and jump in! He is courageous and gutsy.

Studious Anna.


Here is our Anna, actually standing still for one second to get her picture snapped.
CAN YOU BELIEVE IT!

Anna is constantly on the run, and never slows down! In fact, just this morning we asked Anna to settle down and unload the dishwasher. Ella was helping and frustrated that Anna was not. Ella cursed, with hands on her hips, "Anna, would you just focus for a minute and unload the dishwasher."

Aparently, this phrase has been said before by some in the family.

Daredevil Xanda Manda!

Cliff jummping, anyone?

In all truth, Niko was the first to brave the cliffs. And then we all followed his courageous lead.

Cliff jumping is probably top on the list of things to do in St. George, UT this summer. The boys took to cliff jumping like fish to water.

Roman Looking Quite Proud of Himself.


I realize this is another bad picture with bad lighting, however, Roman was so proud of himself as he climbed the stairs for the first time. he know he had accomplished quite a feat.

May we all have successes like this in our daily lives and be just as proud.

Ella in her Learning Cap

Ella attended "school" this year, collonial style during a Fourth of July celebration in Orem, UT. Actually, she stood in the back of the class, not participating, until at the end when the teacher handed out lemon candy to all the good students. Suddenly, Ella had her cap on and was thrilled to attend school.

Sleeping in the Closet

For posterity's sake, this is a picture of Roman in his bed. Yes, his bed. (I know that many of you are thinking he is in a play pen - and you are right - but this is also his bed.)

I believe since Anna was a baby, we put her in our closet (which is a walk-in and almost the size of a bedroom anyway). And ever since then it has been extremely convenient to put our babies in the closet play pen until they are old enough to sleep in a regular bed.

For Niko, I believe he slept in a twin size bed at nine months. Anna was a little older and actually started sharing a bed with Grandma, who at the time lived with us to run our small business. Ella moved in to a bed at about a year. And Roman... well, we'll see when he moved into a bed.

Xander and Niko are thrilled to have Roman "move-in" with them. They even have new, matching bed spreads for the occasion. And Roman will get the party started

WHOOO Needs Sleep?


You can't be HOOOT'N with owls if you  expect to SOAR with the Eagles.



A lesson well taught from the pulpit today. I appreciate the man who shared this wise proverb.

Camping near Penguitch Lake, Utah

Isn't camping just a blast?

My idea of camping is "roughing it," I mean really roughing it. Just a sleeping bag and tent, some food that can be cooked over the campfire with no clean up, no shower, just babywipes (what a luxury), and lots of bugs.

My families' (ie. Grandma Smith and Stan's) idea of camping includes towing a trailer full of all the luxuries you have at home, a full kitchen serving up at least three 4-course meals a day, a shower (which never got set up- thank goodness), and sleeping pads or 4 inch foam for every person including all the children.

So this year we went camping (Stan and Grandma's type) and we brought the house with us.

I guess I should be thankful we got to make a campfire at all.

Zeus is in the House- July 2011

This week Xander (or Zander as he likes to spell it) attended an Ancient Greek & Art History class at the St. George UT Art Museum.

The week was full of fun (and learning) and ancient Greek crafts. To start the week off Xander (now known as just "The Great") created and opened a pandora's box. The story goes that Pandora was the first woman who lived on the earth. She was given a gift by each Greek God.She opened the box and let many evils into the world. As she closed the box there was a small voice that said, "Don't close the box. Please let me out." She let HOPE out of the box. And that is why we have HOPE in the world today.

The boys & their toys

Just another day at school, right?

Of course. These boys are constructing, following instructions, improvising and being creative when a piece is missing, focussing, displaying, I could go on and on. Aren't legos just a classic toy. You can create and recreate. Come up with something different every time.

Uncle Aaron Just Makes Stuff Up

Often, we don't say what we think. Maybe because we think we might hurt another's feelings or because we just aren't bold enough to say it. Maybe we think we might not be able to support our own belief in a convincing manner.

I admire my son, Niko- age 7, because he actually says what he believes and is getting plenty of practice justifying his beliefs and even sometimes apologizing, when appropriate.

Uncle Aaron is an entimologist (a fancy way of saying a bug lover and collector) by hobby. He collects, studies, pins and displays thousands of butterflies, beetles and other insects. He has traveled North and Central America with this hobby and is quite knowledgeable about insects, usually calling one by its scientific name, like Furdelese or Papilionidae, Chalcosoma caucasus. His young son, Easton - age 6, also loves to learn about insects. Like father, like son.

During a recent camping trip, Easton was consantly saying, Niko, my dad says this is a xxxx, or Niko, my dad calls this xxxx. I know what that is called, its a xxx, my dad told me.  Niko had just about enough. He directly and LOUDLY said, "Easton, your dad doesn't know what these bugs are called, he just makes things up!"

Enough said. Uncle Aaron just makes things up!

Saturday, August 13, 2011

Roman Descends Mt. Everest for the First Time!

 A terrible quality video, but proof of Roman's decent after climbing a large stairway. He is just getting around scooting, but was so excited to climb the stairs on his own. He is obviously athletic. His beaming face was amazing, he was so excited about his accomplishment. Even at 8 months old, a child has a real sense of esteem after working hard to overcome an obstacle.

Sunday, August 7, 2011

A New Civil Religion

From a talk given 19 July 1992 at a Pioneer Day fireside at Weber State University, Ogden, Utah.
A New Civil Religion
from lds.org by Jame E. Faust Oct. 1992
http://lds.org/ensign/1992/10/a-new-civil-religion?lang=eng

We memorialize this weekend those valiant pioneers who settled Utah and the surrounding areas. They were a people persecuted and driven out of what was then the United States because of their religious beliefs. They came seeking to worship Almighty God according to the dictates of their own conscience.

Almost three centuries before, in a like manner, God-fearing believers, most notable of which were the Pilgrims, left Europe with its state religions and came to America to seek freedom of worship. As a consequence of this, the deepest taproots of the U.S. and Utah in the past have lain in the very essence of our humanity—our faith in God. Some of our coins still contain the phrase “In God We Trust.” Our pledge of allegiance states that we are “one nation under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.”

The recent controversy in Utah and the nation regarding the constitutionality of certain public prayers casts a serious cloud over the reality and meaning of the sacred in our society.

There seems to be developing a new civil religion. The civil religion I refer to is a secular religion. It has no moral absolutes. It is nondenominational. It is nontheistic. It is politically focused. It is antagonistic to religion. It rejects the historic religious traditions of America. It feels strange. If this trend continues, nonbelief will be more honored than belief. While all beliefs must be protected, are atheism, agnosticism, cynicism, and moral relativism to be more safeguarded and valued than Christianity, Judaism, and the tenets of Islam, which hold that there is a Supreme Being and that mortals are accountable to him? If so, this would, in my opinion, place America in great moral jeopardy.

For those who believe in God, this new civil religion fosters some of the same concerns as the state religions that prompted our forefathers to escape to the New World. Nonbelief is becoming more sponsored in the body politic than belief. History teaches well the lesson that there must be a unity in some moral absolutes in all societies for them to endure and progress. Indeed, without a national morality they disintegrate. In Proverbs, we are reminded that “righteousness exalteth a nation: but sin is a reproach to any people.” (Prov. 14:34.) The long history and tradition of America, which had its roots in petitions for divine guidance, is being challenged.

The new civil religion is different from that envisioned by Benjamin Franklin, who seems to have first used the term “civil religion.” (M. Marty, Pilgrims in Their Own Land, 1984, pp. 155–66.) Franklin’s “civil religion,” as I understand it, was envisioned to replace the state religions of Europe, with their forced taxation and oppression. Franklin no doubt envisioned that this vacuum would be filled with a patriotism reflected by national symbolism, pride, ethics, values, and purpose. His eloquent statement concerning divine intervention in the Constitutional Convention clearly indicated he was not opposed to religiosity.

Free Exercise Clause
The new civil religion isn’t really a religion as you and I would use that term to describe a faith or a church or a synagogue of people that worship Almighty God and espouse a code of moral conduct. This new civil religion teaches a sectarian philosophy that is hostile to traditional religion. It has its own orthodoxy. It could even end up in an ironic violation of the U.S. Constitution that says that there shall be no religious basis for office. (Article IV, U.S. Constitution.) Will irreligion become a test for office? May I share with you several examples that illustrate this?

Every American has been taught that the “freedom of religion” is the “first freedom” guaranteed by the Bill of Rights. The First Amendment to the Constitution recognizes the “free exercise of religion” as the preeminent position among constitutional rights as intended by the Founding Fathers.

Most Americans are unaware, however, that two years ago this most fundamental right was substantially eroded. For decades, whenever government tried to pass a law that interfered with any right guaranteed under the Constitution, the law was given careful scrutiny by the courts. Government was required to show that first, it had a “compelling governmental interest” that justified the interference with a constitutional right, and second, that this “compelling governmental interest” could not be achieved through some other, less intrusive means. This strict scrutiny of law was applied even to rights that have been created by the courts, though they are not specifically found in the Constitution—such as the right to privacy, which is the basis for the legalization of abortion.

In the case of Oregon Employment Division v. Smith (110 Supreme Ct., 1595, 1990), however, this strict scrutiny and the burden on government to demonstrate a “compelling interest” was abandoned in cases involving the free exercise of religion. According to the court, religious exclusions to public policy are “a luxury we can no longer afford.”

As a result, any government (federal, state, or local) can now pass any law that infringes upon individual religious liberty as long as the law applies generally to everyone.

Establishment Clause
The civil secular religion also teaches that the establishment clause of the First Amendment—companion to the “free exercise” clause—should be applied to prevent religious organizations from working cooperatively with the government to bring about worthwhile public policy. There are many laudatory public purposes, such as education, literacy, public health, welfare, and assistance to the poor where charitable institutions, including churches, can and should work with government assistance programs for the public good.

There are numerous examples, however, where governments have tried to provide accommodation to religious institutions which provide public service through tax incentives, grants of educational materials, or other commodities—only to be challenged in court for fostering religion in violation of the establishment clause.

I have chosen to emphasize this subject because the twin religious clauses of the Bill of Rights—“Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion nor prohibit the free exercise thereof” (First Amendment, U. S. Constitution)—are golden threads which in the past have permitted those who believe in God to publicly affirm that there is a higher power that “rules in the affairs of men.” These religious clauses have fostered the creative impulses and the vitality of religion in an open heterogeneous society. They have freed this country from the terrible religious violence that has existed in Europe over the centuries and from which our forefathers in this country sought to escape. One author described these religious clauses in the Constitution as “the Articles of Peace.” (Father J. Murray, We Hold These Truths, 1960, p. 45.)

The establishment and free exercise clauses should be read together to harmonize the importance of religious liberty with freedom from government regulation. Rather, today in our nation the establishment clause is being used to restrict religious institutions from playing a role in civic issues, and the free exercise clause denies to individuals their religious liberty. It does not accord the equivalent to what the Constitution accords to secularism—the new civil religion.

One basic difference between Franklin’s concept of a civil religion and the new secular religion is that the new secular religion rejects in large measure the basic concept of Anglo-Saxon-American jurisprudence. Our traditional jurisprudence has held that God is the source of all of our basic rights, and that the principal function of government is only to secure those rights for its citizenry. May I quote from the Declaration of Independence: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal; that they are endowed by their Creator with certain inalienable rights; … that to secure these rights, governments are instituted among men.”

In contrast, the new civil religion I speak of finds its source of rights by invoking the power of the state. It seems to have little purpose, few common values for morality except self-interest. Most recently that power was invoked by the Supreme Court in a case known in legal circles as Lee v. Weisman. This is the case that resulted in the Supreme Court’s banning ceremonial prayer at public school exercises. Commenting on the case, Edwin Yoder, distinguished columnist for the Washington Post, observed that “the decision is more than a natural extension of the original school prayer decision of 1962. It more closely resembles a promotion of secularity in the public forum—a result which some of the framers of the First Amendment establishment clause probably did not so much as dream of.”

Yoder further states: “Religion has a legitimate public ceremonial and community function which may be stunted by such decisions. It is far from clear why children, even of tender years, need to be protected from religion, even on special ceremonial occasions.” There are natural safeguards in a God-fearing people that promote respect for law and order, decency, and public civility. That restraining influence is the belief that the citizenry will be accountable to their Creator for their conduct under a high moral law. This respect for and adherence to moral law transcends the constraints of the civil and criminal codes. In a people who are not God-fearing, however, these characteristics are notably absent.

When recently viewing residents of Los Angeles lawlessly looting business establishments and happily carrying out stolen goods, when viewing the daily television fare, and when confronted with the overwhelming social ills of this country, we can hardly say that our citizenry have been overexposed to moral teachings. One of the responsibilities of government under their police powers is to protect the health, safety, and morals of the citizenry. Our governments have not succeeded well in this duty of protecting morals, especially to the coming generation.

The new civil religion is, in my opinion, coming dangerously close to become a de facto state religion of secularism. Litigation—and the fear of litigation—have made school boards and local governments reluctant to publicly defend moral principles. As a consequence, fewer public institutions are willing to take the stand in defense of moral values.

With the public religion now turning increasingly toward the secular, I wonder how this nation will preserve its values. In my view, there is a substantial governmental interest within the limits of the religious clauses of the Constitution in public prayer and expressions of all faiths which acknowledge the existence of deity. Such prayer and expressions accommodate the abiding values shared by a great majority of our citizenry. They give meaning to a transcendent spiritual reality and idealism which, in the past at least, were quite firmly held by the people of our society. The very essence of our concern for human welfare and alleviation of human suffering lies in our spiritual feelings and expressions.

So now we find ourselves in a situation where, unlike the Pilgrims, the Mormon pioneers, and others, there is nowhere to go to escape a new civil de facto secular state religion that continually limits public religious expression and fosters instead the secular values and expressions. How do we preserve the essence of our humanity?

Surely we must begin in our homes. We must teach our children and grandchildren.

The moral teachings of all our churches must have an honored place in our society. The general decline in the moral fabric of the citizenry places a greater responsibility on homes and churches to teach values—morality, decency, respect for others, patriotism, and honoring and sustaining the law.

We can exercise our right, with all other citizens, to vote for men and women who reflect our own values. We can also express our views as all other citizens have a right to do in the legislative process of both the state and the nation. With all others, we can claim our rights of free expression. We can petition for the redress of grievances.

We must hold to our beliefs and do what we can, for there is no desert to flee to in order to have full freedom. There is no place across the waters for the Pilgrims.

The Gov't Works on a Ship?

So while at dinner on Saturday Night at Bucca Di Beppo, we (Stan, Xander, Niko, and I) were discussing where our allegiences lie/ who we are responsible to, how we should sacrifice for our God, country, marriages, family, self... you know, kind of like the Boy Scout moto. We talked about being self reliant so we have the means to sacrifice for others, and of course we discussed being reliant on the Go'vt doesn't help our country and how the gov't is going overboard giving out welfare and "free" everything.

To which Xander responded, "I didn't know our gov't works on a ship." Witty boy, witty boy, much like his Grandpa Terrance Olson.

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Because of Winn-Dixie, by Kate DiCamillo

A book every family should read. From the first sentence and the first paragraph, every reader is captured until the very end. (At least I was, and I am sure Xander and Niko were too!)

Chilren and all readers can learn how desperately lonely many people feel, and how each of us can help to brighten each others' days.

It's the simple things that can bring us happiness, our relationships and how we care for each other can really make all the difference for a happy life or a miserable life.

DiCamillo uses simple, descriptive words to create a world worth visiting; where, because of Winn-Dixie, hearts are opened, lives are touched and families are strengthened.

I Love You the Purplest, by Barbara M. Joose

If you ever worry about sibling rivalry, for yourself or among your children, this book is for you.

A wise mother of two competitive young boys kindly answers the luring question, "Who did the best?" She gently applies love to each son reassuring him of his individuality.

The watercolor pictures beautifully display the tender relationship of this mother and her boys working and playing together in nature.

A happy book reminding the reader of days past, where life was much simpler, and family relationships maintained the importance that has been forgotton.